About Petra
I'm Petra Earnshaw, an ADHD Life Coach working exclusively with parents of children with ADHD.
But my connection to ADHD goes much deeper than my professional work.
I have ADHD myself, and I wasn't diagnosed until I was 52. For years, I struggled academically. But the struggles went far deeper than that. ADHD affected my friendships, my emotional regulation, and my ability to respond to things without feeling overwhelmed. I experienced Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD), responding intensely to things that seemed like small issues to others.
Looking back, I can see how much I was masking, trying to be who I thought I should be rather than who I actually was.
That's why I'm so passionate about helping parents recognise these signs in their own children, especially girls, who are so often overlooked. Girls with ADHD are less likely to present as hyperactive, and they're often better at masking their struggles. Instead, they might be daydreaming, quiet, and appearing to cope, which means their ADHD can go completely unnoticed.
When I work with parents, I bring not just my coaching training and experience, but a genuine, personal understanding of what it means to live with an ADHD brain, and how transformative it is when you finally understand why.
I am also proud to be an advocate for Find the ADHD Girls, an organisation working to raise awareness of how ADHD presents differently in girls. Because the signs often look different to those in boys, girls are frequently missed or misdiagnosed, and Find the ADHD Girls is working to change that, to ensure all girls are diagnosed by the age of eight.
If you're a parent who has ever felt alone, confused, or exhausted by the journey, I want you to know that I truly get it. And I'm here to help.